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Sade Imani is sex educator in training with the Sexual Health Alliance, specializing in embodied power, sexual wellness, and intentional body movement. Through her practice, Power Play, Sade guides individuals and groups in building physical strength alongside intimate confidence—bridging the gap between how the body moves and how desire is expressed.
Her work integrates pilates based training, somatic awareness, and trauma-informed sexual workshops to support clients in reclaiming agency, pleasure, and authority in their bodies. With a particular commitment to Black women’s wellness, Sade welcomes all clients and approaches sexual health as a form of sovereign, rooted in intuition, safety, and ancestral body wisdom.
Known for her grounded presence and strategic workshop style, Sade guides clients to move with intention, cultivate confidence, and develop a relationship to intimacy that feels powerful, conscious, and self-directed.
My background includes trauma-informed youth work, LGBTQ+ advocacy support, and years of informal peer workshop that evolved into a professional practice. I specialize in working with people who feel overlooked by traditional wellness spaces, especially women, femmes, and those navigating identity, safety, or cultural expectations around intimacy.
As I continue advanced training toward AASECT certification, I offer early-supporter pricing for clients who choose to begin this work with me now.
I’m an intimacy coach and trauma-informed wellness guide helping people build stronger relationships with their bodies, their partners, and their sense of pleasure through an exPLISSIT style workshop. I support individuals through both group workshops and guided experiences who want clearer communication in relationships, more confidence in their sexuality, and a deeper connection to their embodied experience.
Many people were never given a roadmap for cultivating desire, or accessing sustainable pleasure through the body. Together, we create one.
My approach blends practical education, grounded workshops, and compassion-forward support so clients can move forward without shame or confusion.
Clients typically come to me for:
communication support around intimacy and boundaries
building confidence to take charge in intimate spaces
navigating mismatched desire in partnerships
reconnecting with pleasure and embodiment
Developing a foundation of sexual self-knowledge
If you’re looking for a thoughtful, direct, judgment-free collaborator as you build a more confident relationship with your body and your relationships, I’d be honored to work with you.
As I support others in their growth, I remain deeply committed to my own. I believe transparency in training builds trust, and I continue to invest in education that strengthens the care I provide.
SAR - Sexual Attitude Reassessment: An intensive, experiential seminar for professionals to examine their personal sexual attitudes and biases.
ISSA- International Sports Medicine Association (in progress)
AASECT - American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, & Therapists (in progress)
The history of sexology and becoming sex positive
Human sexual development
PLISSIT model & theories
Sex, Pleasure & the Brain
Navigating Sexual Health Limitations
Sexuality, Culture, Relationships, & religion
The article, ‘Breaking the Silence: A Scoping Literature Review on Trauma-Informed Care for Black Women Navigating Sexual Health-Related Trauma.’ by Okoye et al, argues that a foundational requirement for effective care with Black women and, BIPOC communities more broadly, is the recognition of racism as a chronic stressor and pervasive, traumatizing force in the lives of all black people. From this perspective, a trauma-informed approach is not optional, but essential to meaningfully bridge gaps in communication, trust and care.
To treat individuals effectively, providers must first seek to understand them. This requires contextualizing lived experiences through historical and sociocultural lenses. For BlPOC individuals this means that without this understanding, providers risk retraumatization, undermine trust, and fail to create environments that are geniuenly safe for Black people to exist freely within.
Trauma informed care (TIC) is a framework that exists with the goal to recognize, understand and respond to the fact that all trauma shapes health outcomes, behaviors and how individuals interact with care systems. By intentionally centering the experiences of those who have been least served, I strive to create a practice that is warm, welcoming, and emotionally intelligent--one that supports healing, autonomy, and the full spectrum of pleasure and well-being that I beleive is possible for us all.
Troutman, Ayanna & Are, Funlola & Okoye, Ashley & Chiang, Sarah & Craig, Destiny & Akande, Anthony & Stafford, Irene. (2025). Breaking the Silence: A Scoping Literature Review on Trauma-Informed Care for Black Women Navigating Sexual Health-Related Trauma. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health. 22. 1484. 10.3390/ijerph22101484.
Mission - Power Play exists to support holistic sexual wellness through strength, intention, and care that centers those most often underserved. Grounded in trauma-informed practice, we integrate physical training and intimate workshops to help clients reconnect with their bodies as vehicles for pleasure, agency, and self-trust. By holding Black women at the forefront of care, Power Play sets a higher standard—one rooted in safety, cultural responsiveness, and embodied empowerment that expands access to pleasure for everyone.
Vision - Our vision is a world where pleasure is understood as a human right and the body is honored as a site of wisdom, power, and joy. Power Play imagines sexual wellness that is expansive and embodied—where strength and desire coexist, healing is identity-affirming, and everyone is supported in accessing pleasure without shame. When care is designed to meet the needs of Black women with depth and intention, it creates conditions where liberation, vitality, and sustainable pleasure become possible for all. Power Play exists to create that support for everyone.
Trauma Informed Care is based on six principles, which Power Play has adapted slightly to more seamlessly integrate with our beliefs and our practice. These principles are as follows:
Safety - Systemic oppression in healthcare—made evident through atrocities such as the Tuskegee Syphilis Study and the unethical use of Henrietta Lacks’ cells—has left Black communities with a deep and justified fear of harm by medical and wellness institutions. A trauma-informed practice must begin by acknowledging this history and actively working against it. Prioritizing safety means committing to anti-oppressive care, proactive harm prevention, and environments where Black women—and therefore everyone—can exist without fear of dismissal, exploitation, or retraumatization.
Trustworthiness & Transparency - Because distrust in healthcare has been earned, trust must be intentionally built. Providers have a responsibility to acknowledge the potential for mistrust and respond with humility, consistency, and care. Practices such as active listening, minimizing distractions, building rapport, and offering clients greater control over their experience are especially vital for Black women, whose concerns have historically been ignored. When trust is built at the level required to support Black women, the quality of care improves for all.
Peer Support - For Black women, peer support can be a powerful source of wisdom, mentorship, and shared strategies for navigating inequality. These collective spaces foster validation, resilience, and healing shaped by lived experience. While peer support benefits many communities, designing trauma-informed care that honors Black women’s collective knowledge strengthens the foundation of care for everyone who enters it.
Collaboration - Collaboration means honoring client preferences and autonomy, particularly for Black women whose voices are often marginalized. Providers must treat clients as experts in their own lives and meaningfully involve them in decisions about their care. When Black women’s needs and desires are centered, care becomes more personalized, relevant, and responsive—raising the standard of collaboration across all care relationships.
Empowerment -Empowerment in care requires restoring choice, clarity, and agency—especially for Black women, whose autonomy has been historically constrained within healthcare systems. Providers can support this by presenting information in structured, manageable ways and engaging in shared decision-making that clearly outlines risks, benefits, and alternatives. Empowering Black women strengthens agency not only for them, but for everyone navigating care.
Cultural, Historical, and Gender-Responsive Care - Intersectionality shapes how Black women experience trauma, health, and healing, making cultural, historical, and gender responsiveness essential to trauma-informed care. Centering Black women’s experiences does not limit care—it expands it. When care is designed to meet the needs of those most impacted by systemic oppression, it becomes more effective, humane, and responsive for all.
If these six core tenets of Power Play's trauma informed practice resonate with you or feel slightly radical to you, good. They were meant to.
Why do you focus on Black women and BIPOC communities?
Power Play is grounded in the understanding that care designed to meet the needs of Black women & femmes raises the standard for everyone. Black women have historically been underserved, unheard, and underserved again within wellness and healthcare systems. By centering their experiences, this practice prioritizes safety, responsiveness, and depth, creating an environment where all clients benefit from a higher level of care.
What if I'm nervous or unsure?
That’s completely welcome here. Many clients arrive with questions, hesitation, or uncertainty about where to begin. You don’t need to have the right words or a clear plan, just a willingness to explore. We move at your pace, with intention and respect for your boundaries.
What if I just want personal training?
You’re welcome to engage with the movement side of Power Play on its own. Even within Pilates-based training, the focus remains on building control, awareness, and a stronger connection to your body. Many clients begin here and naturally expand into other areas over time but, that choice is always yours.
Do you offer private coaching?
At this time, Power Play focuses on workshop-based and group experiences. These spaces are intentionally designed to provide high-quality education, shared insight, and practical tools in a structured, supportive environment. Private coaching may be introduced in the future.
Is Power Play right for me?
If you feel that there is more available to you, more presence, more connection, more ease in your body, this is for you. Power Play is designed for those who are ready to approach their wellness with intention and curiosity, even if they’re still figuring out what that looks like.
Is this therapy?
No. Power Play is not therapy and does not replace licensed mental health care. The workshops are future-focused and skill-based, offering education, reflection, and practical tools to support your growth, awareness, and embodiment.
Can I work with Power Play if I'm single?
Yes. This work is centered on your relationship with your body and your sense of self, not your relationship status. Many clients begin this work individually and find that it strengthens how they show up in future connections.
Can I switch my provider?
At this time, Power Play is a single-practitioner experience. If your needs shift, we can discuss how best to support you, including referrals when appropriate.
How much does Power Play cost?
Pricing varies depending on the service and level of support. As the practice continues to grow, early-supporter rates are available for clients who begin during this stage. You’ll receive full transparency around pricing during your consultation so you can make an informed decision.
Is my information confidential?
Yes. Your privacy is taken seriously. All sessions and communications are handled with discretion and respect. Any shared insights or learnings used for educational purposes are fully anonymized.
I don't want to give you my real name.
That’s okay. You’re welcome to use a name that feels comfortable for you, especially in initial interactions. Building trust happens over time, and you are always in control of what you choose to share.
I am white. Am I welcome here?
Absolutely. Power Play is a welcoming space for all clients. While the practice centers Black women’s experiences to ensure a higher standard of care, the intention is to create an environment that is thoughtful, respectful, and supportive for everyone who enters it.
I am LGBTQIA+. am I welcome here?
110%. Power Play affirms diverse identities and experiences. This is a space where you are supported in exploring your body, your relationships, and your sense of self in ways that feel aligned, safe, and empowering.
Learn the movements, awareness, and skills that support deeper pleasure and intimacy.